Sandwich Generation
Its the term for the adults still caring for children at home when their own parents care needs rise. It can be complicated, messy and a little uncomfortable. We are here to help navigate.
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Set the table
Term for the adults still caring for children at home when their own parents care needs rise
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Always been difficult, but timing used to be a little better
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teens vs toddlers
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cost of care and education collide
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FIRST PRINCIPLE: to make it work, really need a 3 mile/15 minute bubble
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traveling is inconvenient, expensive, and time consuming when speed sometimes counts
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A smaller bubble means it is simple to involve elders in weekly (or daily) routines.
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In general, easier to have elders move to sandwich generation who are actively earning money and raising and educating children.
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Socialization for the elder generation is more important that commonly anticipated. Loneliness is hard all around.
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Research insurance needs
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Take a realistic look at current savings projections
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Figure out the legal details, drawing up papers with lawyers if necessary
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medical power of attorney
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regular power of attorney
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advanced care directives
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Bank and other assorted logins
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Open up the conversation long before need arises
Its the term for the adults still caring for children at home when their own parents care needs rise. It can be complicated, messy and a little uncomfortable. We are here to help navigate.
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